5 Ways For Fellas To Do Better

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Guys, when it comes to the ladies, many things may go over your head countless times, but, that doesn’t mean you should be content with being mediocre or average in the relationship department. These five tips may help you score a date with that girl you’ve been crushing on, or at least get you massive brownie points with her. Let me try to relay this in another way. I’m basically handing you the handbook with the game winning play. Read and learn.

  1. Hygiene is so important! What girl wants to be under or around a guy who smells like anything but delight? Shower regularly and make sure to put on deodorant. Keep in mind that girls pay attention to fingernails, too. You’d be surprised at how many first impressions are made about a person based on how well they take care of their hands. Dirt underneath your fingernails isn’t a good look or attractive. And honestly, it can be a major turn off.
  2. Etiquette can make or break you. In no way do you want to come off disrespectful or ignorant towards anyone in any setting, especially towards a female you want to be involved with romantically. You don’t have to pretend to be something you’re not; it’s a red flag and obvious to most people. It doesn’t make you look cool and I guarantee that would be your last time hearing from me.
  3. Memory is very essential with dealing with a woman romantically. Women want to feel as though what they have to say matters and interests you. Showing more interest in what she has to say, surprising her with something that she mentioned she loved, and even remembering a key detail about her could potentially impact her day positively. Chances are she’ll be sharing details about how thoughtful you are the next time she talks with her friends.
  4. Ambition is incredibly attractive. Women want to be with someone with goals and a plan, not with someone who’s unsure of everything and has no drive. If you do have dreams and goals that you’re striving for, share them with her. A woman will be able to see the passion in your eyes and the steps you’re taking to accomplish your goals. Because at the end of the day, nobody wants to be with a bum.
  5. Immaturity is never a good thing, especially when it comes to relationships. Women need to be able to feel they can effectively discuss serious issues with their partner as well as have moments when they can crack jokes. Find a balance and feel out what your partner likes. At some point you have to grow up and mature. Why not make it sooner than later?

By Kori A. Nicole Barnes, Senior, Homewood Flossmoor

Twitter: @Korixnicole

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