Did U Wrong

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IMG_0233Sitting here in the midst of a fight with my love and Pleasure P’s make up to break up anthem ‘Did You Wrong’ plays on the pandora on my tv. Just listening to him speak that real took all the anger from my body. Its like as the song continued, the evil feelings just dissipated. I realized that I really do love this man even though sometime we just do not see eye to eye. We come from two different worlds and view alot of things differently. But the common denominator in this is that we love each other unconditionally.

My sister asked me a question I guess I hadnt heard in a while and it took me back. “What makes him so different that you want to go above and beyond for him?” Its always why him over anyone else, never that personalized and recognized in growth. I realize that I get up early in the morning with this man to pack his lunch and iron his clothes with pleasure. But why? And thats when it hit me why we have to stay together. Even though we fight, I have a partner and best friend in my man. See ladies the thing with relationships, especially young ones is, its real easy to walk away. When youre aware that you have so many options and maybe being single was a little less tedious, you start to wonder if the grass is really greener.

Remember your why. In any situation when you chose to fight and stick with something difficult, place your reason for starting at the forefront of your mind. Alot of the time,us women just need to vent. Get things out so that you can hear yourself say all of the issues aloud and then dissect as you think of them. Companionship and communication go hand in any sort of relationship, but romantic especially. I have a strong belief that enforcing a friendship before placing a title on any sort of involvement saves alot of time and strife. Somethings people just wont do to their friend. Or atleast theyll think about it before they do. The friendship maybe the catlyst in whatever decision may be at hand.

We have the tendency to get angry at what we dont understand and those of us who have been hurt (most of us) or in a situation that didnt necessarily go the way we hoped, we want to just completely do away with the entire thing. I can only speak for myself when I say that I’m impatient with love, change and growth. Coming from a relationship where I felt like I was giving 100% and he was only giving 10%, my guard is army strong. The deeper my feelings become the more difficult it becomes to hold this wall and the more frustrated I become because I’m forced to grow, to love, to change. Its important to be aware of your strengths and weaknesses, they can be the determining factor in alot of loves choices. Once youve surpassed that hump, its easy to decipher between whos not worth it and whos not perfect. I learned that I equate emotions with control which makes me feel emotionally retarded when I dont understand the way I or my significant other feels. But today, I think I’m on a journey of letting love fly and following my heart.

Love is patient. Love is kind. If you have it, cherish it.
With Love,

Storie Stone

The Storie Will Be Televised

B R I L L I A N T. Successful Project Product. Proud Black Sheep and all around Thoroughbred. 26. Planted in Chicago,IL | Blossomed in Atlanta, GA

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